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well coached. I wanted to have someone with me who
was working to make me comfortable and had a great
deal of experience to draw on. However, I was begin-
ning to be afraid that I would not find the support I
wanted at the hospital. In fact, I began to think I might
feel antagonistic toward policies I encountered there.
To have the best chance at a natural birth, I wanted
to feel relaxed and supported during my labor, and
not be fighting the hospital system or expecting my
husband to do so.
In my fourth month I began to look into birthing
with a midwife—someone who was trained to see
pregnancy and birth as a natural process rather than
as a problem to be treated. But I found that midwives no
longer attend births at our local hospital. I remembered
reading about these cutbacks—little did I know they
would affect me so soon!
I considered hiring an experienced doula who could
provide support and coaching. However, a doula would
have no authority in the hospital, so we still might end
up arguing with hospital policies, which would not
help my labor at all.
I continued looking into options and found a free-
standing birth center about 35 miles from our house,
where I could give birth in a homelike setting with a
midwife in attendance and lots of support for natural
pain management, including a Jacuzzi tub. I decided
to change caregivers with the goal of having my baby
at the birth center. If I have any risk factors, I will
have my baby at the hospital near the birth center with
a midwife in attendance.
If our local hospital had midwives, I think I would
have my baby there. I would want to be at this hospital
if anything went wrong with the delivery, or if the
baby had any problems. But I have to plan for a normal
birth—I am low risk, and most births do happen with-
out serious complications. Also, I feel far more confi-
dent that the midwives at the birth center will help me
and support me through a normal labor and birth and
that their support will minimize my chances of needing
medical intervention and the complications that can
occur with interventions. I regret having to give up
the convenience (our local hospital is 10 minutes
away—the birth center is 40) and the medical excel-
lence at our local hospital, but I strongly believe that
for a low-risk birth where the parents want minimal
medical intervention, midwife attendance is the right
choice.
through changes of position before giving birth in a
queen-sized bed. Parker never left the room I was in,
and nursed within an hour after birth.
The sources I have read say that women have better
births when they are confident and supported. My birth
environment provided that for me. I was confident that
my caregivers would not suggest unnecessary interven-
tions, yet I was also confident that they would take
the best care possible of my baby and me. And whether
because of that, or just because I was lucky, I had a
relatively quick and easy birth.
I would like to see more practitioners approach
prenatal care as a partnership. Usually, no one cares
more about the health of the baby than the pregnant
woman and her partner. A doctor or midwife can offer
expertise and even opinions on care and procedures
during pregnancy, labor, and delivery, while leaving
most decisions up to the expectant parents. In addition,
when the practitioner understands that there are differ-
ent approaches to prenatal care, it would allow the
practitioner to present his or her approach honestly,
and allow the pregnant women to choose the prac-
titioner and the approach that most closely matches
her own.
At the same time, it is important to offer real educa-
tion about tests and procedures that may be used during
pregnancy, labor, and delivery. This includes a clear
explanation of any negatives in addition to the posi-
tives. Including opinions can certainly be useful when
the woman is trying to make a decision. If she has
chosen a practitioner with an approach that she desires,
an opinion can be extra guidance—especially when it
is clear that it is an opinion. There seems to be an
assumption that women know about the pros and cons
of tests and procedures already, but I think that is the
exception rather than the rule.
I would like prenatal practitioners to offer informa-
tion on the benefits of a low-intervention birth, includ-
ing the physical benefits to the baby and the emotional
benefits to the mother. Parenting is a hard job. What
better way to start than knowing you did your best in
probably the hardest physical task of your life, and
that in that personal success you also did the best for
your baby?
I think it is important to offer education about the
benefits of breastfeeding to mother and baby. I think
many practitioners believe that women already know
about it, or they are eager to offer women the choice
between formula and breastfeeding. Facts can be pro-
vided about breastfeeding as they are about any medi-
cal procedure, without pushing a decision one way or
another.
Postscript
Parker was born on 9 November, 1999, at 5:12 AM.
He was 9 pounds 7 ounces. His birth was intervention
free. I arrived at the birth center about three hours
before he was born, used the Jacuzzi, and was coached
Although some interventions are clearly necessary
and can save lives, many practitioners seem to have
a mindset that interventions equal success because they